Ahhhh Valentine’s Day. One of my favorite holidays! Not for the romance and flowers (that part’s nice too), but because we’ve weirdly made it a super special holiday! Stew and I started the tradition of making fondue every Valentine’s Day more than a decade ago. It’s evolved from sitting in his garage apartment that shook when someone walked up the stairs, to being in the comfort of our home surrounded by our babies (who stress us out and teach us how to love so deeply all at the same time)! It’s no better or worse, it just shows how life is ever-changing!
Valentine’s Day is one of those holidays that makes me think about love and relationships. It’s not like the movies. The years go by and people change. I don’t get butterflies when Stew and I hold hands, but there’s a different kind of love that has grown. It’s one of depth and comfort and need. It makes me think about how no one person is going to fit every check box and marriage isn’t easy. But it’s worth working at. It’s worth talking through the downs and celebrating the ups. I feel blessed to have a husband who loves me more than words can express and who thinks I’m beautiful in my sweatpants and glasses. That’s what it’s about, isn’t it? Once the newness and passion wear off, hopefully there’s a depth that keeps you coming back for more!
As moms, our husbands get the leftovers. They get the tired, stress-out version of us at the end of the day. They are the ears that hear our complaints. While we give to our jobs and our kids all day, our husbands don’t get any of that! So this holiday reminds me that our husbands deserve more than the other areas of our lives to which we give. Because when Mommy and Daddy are happy, the rest falls into place. So here’s to a Happy Valentine’s Day, wherever you may be!